I started a new relationship in January this year with a guy that does not like my dog. I have to change something in me and my mindset to make this work. But if I worked full time we would not have taken the dogs so how important can they be? im just not sure i can make it till hes no longer in the picture. I just want him to be safe as my dog wants his food. My boyfriend has 2 dogs. My boyfriend is constantly telling him to go lay down and go play and Beau just always cowers and walks away with his tail between his legs. .. A PET IS DEFINITELY LIKE A CHILD! I actually wanted to leave in the very beginning, but tried to make it work. A partner than doesnt take care of their dog, doesnt train it, give it exercise or give it what it needs ( not wants) is the problem not the dog. Thank you for your comment, Kat. And if we just walk to the kitchen its constant begging. Now we visit them and hes mean to their dogs if his dog dont rule. It is not even possible to give them as much attention as they want! Over and over again, I see stories about how the boyfriends/girlfriends/spouses of these dog owners end up feeling left out, second class, and unimportant while the needs of a dog are being prioritized over their own. Talking, begging, thumping tails, jumping around in excitement). We have a great time together and have great chemistry. It has not been hard enough to draw blood but our son was weary of it for sometime. He is at home with her all day while I work. Im losing my mind. Quite high and mighty of you to push your own agenda of what you consider to be normal. On these dog nuts. Simply because it was how you were raised yet by nature humans are in no way monogamous creatures and thus we are not bound by our instincts to stay together. Im very attached to him. I got married and moved in with my husband awhile ago and we adopted a dog shortly after. And dog lovers cant do that. Not only did the dog precede the boyfriend, but I am completely responsible for him. My partner is always defensive over any suggestions about the dog which makes me really upset and pissed off. A cute basset hound mut with penty of issues, now requiring attention, food and time that I never signed up for or agreed to. Idiots owning idiots. Divorced 3 years ago and my x husband hated her bc she was in the house. and our Luckily I found a good odor eliminator Pro-Ban. My bf cant stand to hear that anything is bad about Fido, and so basically I just have to tolerate the bad behavior. I dont understand alot of things about this situation. The other, well, really only second rate by comparison. What makes it all worse is that our dogs can sense my stress and displeasure in them and eventually develop submissive behaviors. It does a good job pissing my dog off too, while it constantly paces about the kitchen looking for food. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Telling him that in six years when the dog is dead, and Im not there, what will you regret? Since they are part poodle, they are extremely hyper and neurotic and have the energy of 20 toddlers. I am seeking advice about a present situation I have with my spouse about his dog. This restaurant allows dogs on the patio but he didnt know that until he was there. My boyfriend adopted his dog at over a year old so has never dealt with a puppy, his dog completely disrespects me and wont listen to me at all. I had pets all my life. And also, you might want to checking out some good books on marriage and relationships. Heavy training: You have to spend so much time with several bucks. Dogs can have fleas or ticks even if you think they are properly cared for. If you are prioritizing the dog over your husband/boyfriend, you should get over yourself. I make a point of saying, babe I dont like him on the bed and he jumps on the defensive side every bloody time! Which ended up in a giant arguement of me supposedly not loving her or respecting her because I stated I no longer would take care of her dog. I absolutely freaked out. He takes care of the vet and feeding, but, except for his bed, I do the cleaning of dog hair and messes on my floor. Dogs arent human in the sense that some people anthropomorphise their pets but that nauseating pet lover encourages jealous or possessive behavior that just their dog likes them only because of the way they are intentionally or subliminally raised. Well sorry you are going through this. I can understand that, but Im having a hard time accepting it. People who think animals love them more and do not hurt them, as my partner says, need some help. To think she would choose this animal over me, that she does not care for, was pretty upsetting. You would not be the ah for getting rid of the bf. No way. I actually love them but never, ever thought that a dog would be treated with such reverence and respect than myself or that every material thing I earned would be destroyed with no acknowledgement by my significant other. This is getting out of control. I know I must sound like a nag sometimes but communication is key. But f***, cant you show him discipline?? I am so bothered by the mess this dog has caused and it makes me feel like well never have a nice clean home! If someone truly loves you they will work with you to solve the problem so all 3 of you can live in peace. The dog relented at first and then allowed him and I watched him plant his lips firmly on the side of her muzzle. A lot of peple commenting on here have been outright rude to say people need therapy for loving their dogs too much or treating them like humans. when this happens then the child also feels like the animals needs are more important. I uprooted to move all the way to a small middle eastern country leaving all that i cherished ( career,family,friends) behind and was shocked to find my husbands cat coming along. Maybe its a type of avoidance technique, to create a world centered around their dogs so that they dont feel so lonely and can justify not having normal social relationships with others. Life is hard enough without adding anything else to the equation. The dog would nip at the husband whenever he tried to get near his wife to show her affection. On top of that he never got her trained or really house broke her completely and allowed her to sleep in the bed. I have to be at work by 8am, Steve only works at 10am. Take off your tinfoil hat Do dogs even understand what monogamy is? We both know that we cant afford to replace the things in our home. I feel like she loves these cats more than she does me. In the car with the puppy, I mentioned to my husband how much I was looking forward to getting a dog when we moved, and asked him what sort of dog he might like, wanting to involve him in the process. And yes, she would get on all the furniture, including patio chairs. His dog lived there when we met. Im having the exact same issue with my dog and my partner hating him. When you do your relationship with your dog and SO will be alot more successful. She also has a this high pitched bark that she does when shes in her kennel at night because she wants to get out. I think that if two people are together and one is an animal lover and the other feels put out by the demands of an animalits better to go seperate ways. The second cat is his moms and the cat is the most annoying cat ever, the cats been in diapers his whole life.. but he is perfectly capable of going to the litter box he even trys to go while hes wearing his diaper my boyfriends mom changes that cats diaper on the same counter she prepares food with out disinfecting it.. when i addressed my boyfriend he claimed she does.. The dog is the sweetest, smartest dog Ive ever had. Am I wrong for wanting him to get rid of it? Husband now is only concerned with dogs appearance rather than his wife. Ive has to replace her bed because she pooped on it, and she is tearing up the toys that belong to one of the other dogs. I like his presence there with me so it works. There has to be something kind of off about a relationship if there is this much of a disconnect. I saw the affection they shared and the love and happiness gained from their relationship. Anyway, as I was feeding the baby I hear my dog whining which I know means he needs to go out. Being dropped off at the shelter can be traumatizing for a pet. I believe people who let their animals do these things are harbouring their own issues with people and secretly enjoying the pretend power their out of control mutts are giving them. She had a seizure and yelped and again wouldnt let me pick her up and I was about to give up and take her to the pound. I broke up with him because I saw no possible way for this to work, and I didnt want to force him to choose between me and the dog. Find another significant other that loves their dog, yet makes you feel special, respected, and loved as you should be treated. I soon after became pregnant. Then he started joking about how sometimes hell wake up with the bed covered in fur, but that he needs his Mesa cuddles and that it would diminish his happiness and quality of life if she were to no longer be allowed in the bedroom. And in the end he was the one that left me and I was finally free from that promise. The episode featured a family (husband, wife, 2 teenage kids) and their Pomeranian. We tried for one night to keep Fido out of the bedroom, but he whined all night and damaged the door frame by clawing at it. Well the plot has thickened. Once they are comfortable with one command, I am looking forward to moving to a new trick or command. My boyfriend lets the dog basically inhale my face when I walk in the door and it totally ruins my mood, especially since he knows how much I hate it. A retired couple who offered everything I did, with the bonus of not having my husband for a daddy. I can EMPATHIZE.. This is so frustrating. The narcissist thinks that getting rid of your pet means your attention will now solely be on them. When my oldest was 8, I got her a kitten. Thank you for listening and understanding. They were well trained. A year later, I was asked to foster for a short while a blind cat called Pheobe and my boyfriend, now husband, reluctantly agreed. But as time goes on I feel more resentment. As for the dog thing and spreading bacteria, the only dog (or cat) disease that Ive ever heard of thats communicable to humans is Rabies. We have a Great Dane 2 year old with no issues. About 3yrs ago he bought a house & installed wood floors and (as you all know) cats run around from time to time. When I get home from work, it literally feels like I am being pummeled in all directions because the dogs are jumping on me, barking, practically bouncing off the walls with crazed excitement. I have read many comments that put the blame on the SO who has the issue with the pet. if you ignore her she gives a bark for attention and climbs on. I was just saying keep them out while we eat for 30 minutes! Right after bringing her home, our youngest cat saw her and freaked out, terrified. I knew this dog was hurting. I willingly do all the work for the dog. Ive put tarp down in the room as he previously went poop on the floor there. He never does it when someone is in the house so we rarely catch him doing it. Before then we lived in separate homes I had my beautiful and tidy high rise apartment and had no clue whatsoever what could possibly lie ahead. Your bf has anthropomorphized the animals into his lover. My wife has a bed for him set up in the shower because since he suffers from extreme anxiety, she said that is his safe place. You deserve love, caring, respect, loyalty. Weve tried other toys, but he destroys and eats them. In Texas they were allowed to be inside as long as they were kenneled. I totally and 1000% understand where you are coming from! I dont know what to do anymore! He said he would be sitting in his recliner and the dog was on the couch. Here I am sitting down in our room then he goes and gets the dog a pillow. Be kind people! Absolutely not. He even went so far as too says that the dog should know his humour, when to bug him or not, when he has his good jeans or work clothes. I have mild allergies so she irritates my nose when in close proximity not to mention I think a dog in bed is so unsanitary. I received pictures every week and I can see by her sleeping posture that she is both happy and comfortable. Sure, I will go through some ups and downs of separation and divorce, as the marriage didnt make it, but in the end, I am sure without such negativity I will be much happier on a day-to-day basis. He cant even use the bathroom w out her whining to come in. Then invest some money in a dog trainer, and they know exactly what to do. Love your pets, but everyone has a rank in the pecking order. No amount of vacuuming keeps the hair at bay. But as the dog began to live with us, I began to feel pushed aside. Frankly, it works for any breed. Lady your dog is leading your life. Hes a good dad but can not show boundaries or rules to this dog. Popular doesnt mean its right. On several occasions my wife has developed a sore on her lip that often takes a week or longer to heal. I strongly disagree and when I said this, he got really angry at me. Both of you need to get a hold of yourselves and purchase of beds for the good of the dogs and your relationship. I have pretty much put my foot down and the dog has to stay in her bed all the time. Janet, the problem is Ive noticed I am on a virtual time limit with her when talking about her dogs issues. I grew up with dogs, they will not die from having table scraps! He raised her like a human child, she is ruined for life. Therefore, you should go through its diet plan and create an appropriate diet plan with the assistance of a veterinarian. We had discussed very thoroughly prior to living together that the house will need to be cleaned often and upkept to minimize as much as possible the hair. But its never too late to get up on your feet, face the reality, and march forward. How I talk to the cat and greet him(mind you, my husband went through a depression from losing his job and Id come home to his scowl looking face and Mango would run to me for his greeting-Im sorry? Omg! His dog is emotionally unstable, obnoxious and all around out of control. I have made it clear that if another animal comes into the house, I will clear the entire house out and I will drive them all to a kill shelter on the other side of the state. What?!?! My bf wants to feed it HUMAN FOOD (not suppose to) The thing, gets diarrhea every once in a while. And yes my partner is obsessed with his dog, what he eats, he cant havw treats, B12 and other injections have to be given to him, other medications, etc. Tell him that you agree with his decision and ask for another chance. I have a partner that was open to my dog in the begging after about 6 months and moving in with her things changed right away, She stopped feeding my dog, walking my dog and tells me how mush she hates him. The reality of relationships is, you really need two fairly like-minded people for them to be a success, at least certainly when it comes to day-to-day lifestyle. I have said I do not want the dog in bed but it goes ignored. also to those who hate pets what not. My story is very similar to all of yours except I was the dog owner going into it. Later the same day, I walked in the living room and watched him pick up her muzzle and plant his lips on the side of her face moving his head right to left and left to right, like a hard kiss of passion. They seem to outnumber the sane/rational ones! I have problems with depression, chronic pain, etc. However most of the pet sites insult anyone considering turning their indoor cat into an outdoor cat. Shes a DOG. We have been going rounds about the animal for quite some time. Its similar to the theory of our subconscious playing out in our dreams and that its a sign of our innermost desires. And one of the dogs, also keeps drinking from the toilet and chews up garbage from the trash can in the bathroom, even underwear! It is a total pain follows him everywhere like a bad smell and really I. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. I was in a long distance relationship for a very long time and recently uprooted to move all the way across the country to be with my significant other. I just wish she wouldnt stink or shed so much but this wont stop. It takes a lot of time and it shows IMO how much I actually care for my girlfriend because I cant tell you how many men would just hit it and leAve because of an annoying pup. He goes on and on about how he would never choose to have a dog. Ive read quite a few of your posts and I feel that mine situation is not as harsh as all of yours. It doesnt mean he has to get rid of it as a family member has a farm where he takes it everyday to work anyway and the response I got was- its going nowhere and I was evil, so he choose to go with it! I actually feel with time, I will pity the man in the end. I like dogs but I cant deal with this anymore. Husband finds this cute. Humans, on the other hand, develop and sustain relationships with other people based upon a plethora of things in life. Explain to him why the dog would be better off and that he has to think of his family first as well as the new baby especially! Im worn out and tired. I have a chihuahua and he is wonderful. keeping me away from him and the puppy. I have had my dog since he was 4 months old. Because that dog doesnt listen at all! Im just sick and tired of this dog being higher on the totem pole than me and our kids. I didnt want him on furniture which he has done and not in our room. What do you even base that arbitrary and subjective remark on anyway? He has only visited them a few times in the past months. I adore my lady. Seriously, dogs do give me anxiety. Eventually I get the, OK, lets talk about something else now, or, this is upsetting me; I really dont wanna talk about this. So once that happens there isnt much I can say or do. It does not mean your partner has to help to, itd your pet so dont give them that responsibility because its not theirs. Only a month would be sufficient. A dog or a cat is not important as much as your spouse. Its frustrating because anything we plan revolves around her dog and if we can leave him at her parents. FYI, we are planning on living in an apartment :( Its just very stressful and need some advice I have been thinking about training, but i dont want that in our new house, because that will be pissed and ruined as soon as they are there, and I just want a clean house and not the additional stress of dogs around me. He still lived with his family. Even my partner has been working on my nerves with her pain in the a** dog. Thats unsanitary! He talks about it all the time. We couldnt crate her at night because shed crap all over herself. Everyone has to put up with your dog but godforbid they talk out against it. He eats my dogs food all the time. I'm a total cat person and I don't see the appeal of a dog that constantly wants attention. Assistir Sheffield Utd X Tottenham - Ao Vivo Grtis HD sem travar, sem anncios. That causes me much sorrow. So while I totally agree with you and Bubbly, I feel like this is going to backfire on me. Get rid of the dog for pete sakes! It takes some longer than others but you cannot let them run a mock and if he sets and KEEPS the boundaries without whining about it and accepts it wholeheartedly, then things can move forward. Any comment will help. He far as takes her to the bathroom with him. HOWEVER..my partner has suffered a brain injury and cant help but whine about and insult my dog. Putting her in the kennel with a very dark blanket covering the kennel so she cant see as well as putting a radio on beside her has seemed to help. All in all its a dog, not a person & even though he has strong feelings for them Im disappointed that he doesnt have stronger feelings about me. Im ready to move out into my own apartment and my boyfriend is choosing to stay with his parents and the animals ugh. not when Im being treated as beneath them! Three months after we married he came down with bronchitis. I moved to the US to be with my husband, so I left everything and everybody behind to be with him. Each member has a priority level on this pack. They have passed away 2 yrs ago my mom and not quite 1 yr ago my dad. I have a bone of contention with my SO over his wiener dog. Im at a loss.! But I am miserable. YES! I refuse to allow some brat of an animal ruin things that I have worked hard and paid for. Going to dog training as a couple (although the dog owner should pay for it, lol) is a priceless experience and will change your life. She was given a dog bed and I slept much better. She was put to sleep 8 months into our marriage so yay no more cats. So much for having a dog for company. Im sorry for all that youve gone through and are going through now. Animals just dont cut it. In any case, Im not saying either of you is right/wrong, but just trying to shed some light! Hes had all that time to tell me about his dislike of dogs the first time he met my parents I asked him before we went in if he was okay with dogs and he said yes! He agreed. Your allergies seem much more extreme but I have minor allergies to my boyfriends dog and it makes my nose itch its so frustrating. Recently we found out the friends he left his dog with werent taking good care of the dog. It was insane. Pets are creatures of habit, and cannot be transferred from home to home like a toy just because someone doesnt want them around. Thats bad but whats worse is that he doesnt understand, or doesnt care, that your basic needs arent being met; the needs of his real lover, the dogs, are being put before your needs. She Says its either her and the baby or my dogs. Finally one of my plates was chipped and I ask him to stop and he started using paper plates. So, now in my third year of marriage I am reading and learning, more and more about this phenomenon because I love my wife but not her attachment to her dogs. We love our dog, but we do NOT treat him like a human child because hes not one. I have two Jack Russells that Ive had for 13 years. Thank you. he lies on her keyboard, on her paperwork, gets between us during intimate moments. I didnt dislike the dog till after my baby was born. Some of these comments are down right selfish and show a complete lack of understanding of relationships. You would assume most dog lovers/owners would treat ALL dogs the same! He eats what he tears up and throws it up so we have that mess to clean up too. If you are bothered by his soiling and smell be sure to let your partner know. I tell the dog no, but she just looks at me with clueless look and then runs crazy laps around the apartment. Should i be concerned about this? Your family are people and they obviously know you better than your dog; your ex sounds lucky to be rid of you. He sometimes travels for work and I dont want to deal with it, I cant even sleep at night because of those barking and noisy dogs and he doesnt care. Not to mention, dont compare them to children like a boy and a girl analogy. If I discipline the dog I am scowled at!! Yes, large breed dogs have the odor characteristic to deal with. I watched him as he sat to the left of her, take her head. Besides her annoying habits such as constantly licking the floor, and herself, scratching any closed doors whenever she feels like it, etc, she was allowed by my husband to sleep in bed with us, even during my pregnancy while the smell of her would make me sick. (That can provide the same amount of nutrition). I hope you guys can figure out something that works :). And I love animals!!! But my boyfriend loved her. I have an African Grey and my sinned deceased husband had 2 blue & gold macaws. I dont even know where to start. I wanted to give people here a here a different outlook about pets, Chihuahuas and perhaps love itself. Compromise does not work if you are asking someone to tolerate something they cant stand. This is the exact way I feel. Making peace with your partners pets. She sits between your legs staring at you while you eat. Because he hates him please help. but I do it mostly and have asked him to just not take him out, that I can handle it, heck I have all these years. I love my husband, in every other aspect we have a great relationship, but this makes me so sad and when hes not around, I openly cry for my loss of not having a pet. time (because of her separation anxiety)and snores and pants constantly (due to the pushed up face). When she arrived she was on the couch. She adopted a dog (3 years old) after two years and we were both excited (Keep in mind, I didnt really have any say in getting the dog or not. If you cant be bothered to put in the time to make that happen, then dont get a partner because its not fair on them. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Obedience training. But they have their place. Dog doesnt know a kennel. I must also say we dont live together. So, I figured if I gave him time, hed adjust to the idea of a dog and be as enthusiastic about it as he is for our other animals. My issue with my spouse and his dog is the dog, an animal, usurped me, given higher value, and more cherished than his wife. Its not that I dont like animals, but I have no desire of them to be in my house and definitely not in my bed. I cant help that, he was like that when he came to me from his last family. I hate continuing to learn my lesson. Im just so overwhelmed. He leaved in the house with him before we got married and then moved the dog to the garage, shortly after. Living in Sweden alone I longed for a pet to love and to relieve the loneliness that Ive experienced. He will not compromise at all on this issue. Questions or concerns about the preceding article can be directed to the author or posted as a comment below. She developed a grade 5 heart murmur and her quality of life worsened. Its been almost a year now and she still continues to try and make me care for this dog. I think I know who is wrong. Privacy Policy. I believe he got his dog to look posh. Just order the dog back to her bed. I didnt get any attention except when he asked whats for dinner. Absolutely everywhere. However he gets on my nerves because he demands too much attention from my boyfriend which brings issues between me and my boyfriend. I cant continue to live in the house with this dog and his behavior. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. The shedding is ridiculous to the point there are tumbleweed hair balls all over. I knew she shed before I moved in but I had hoped to stay on top of it more when actually living here. Think about whether the dog is too attached to you. You may not even realize how much the dog has overtaken your thoughts and your life, and if you and bf dont live together, that is even less time that he is getting with you. It has been very sad at times when I miss my gf. Rebel I really feel for you. He would get more too, trust me. i said look ive tried to learn to live with him..im on edge constantly from watching him like a hawk around the baby..ive exhausted myself trying to get you to see that im not just being mean ..im concerned for my baby and for the baby on the way there is no way in hell i can deal with a newborn and that dog..but all that aside i just wanted to sleep without him keeping me up all night for once and cuddle my husbandhe said well go lay down where you can sleep then babei was floored..basically hes saying my concerns and needs and wants are not important at all to him..and im second to his dogi got upset and cried and said some things i didnt mean..but hell who wouldnt at that point.he looked at me hateful as could be with the dog laid in my spot all up on his side and said if you dont wana sleep with the dog then get the hell out of the roomwhat do i even say or do anymore? And the point is that we soon might be go live on our (as we are staying with friends until we can financially afford to live on our own), and of course he wants his dogs! The steroids made her urinate excessively, unbeknownst to us. relationships. Hang in there. Teach it right and it will learn respect and maybe he wont be jealous anymore if he is then leAve him. but her human destroyed all my strides within a day. the ex trains him and ex tells me to leave. Cats are cleaner than dogs and very easy to take care of. Other solutions that are worth considering. It will cost some money, but it may be worth it to save your relationship and keep your pet happy and healthy. They think that were overreacting because we dont like fur on our clothes. Okay since then my 3 kids and I have moved twice and recently moved into a home and my boyfriend of 6 months has moved in with us. The article is right, you DONT HAVE TO LOVE THE PET AS MUCH AS YOUR PARTNER. Hes got them in the habit of getting a treat when they do their business. Simple. She is your typical this is my fur child its like taking care of a baby. There isnt. This was her thing). At home training, if that doesnt work the next step professional training. The thing is we were supposed to be moving in together when he took her on. Then she lays with him in the bed and he cuddles With her and not me. It has caused me a lot of stress. Also this puppy is a Pitbull and my partner knows Im scared of these types of dogs. Never got bad until we moved into a new place together. You may have rescued a dog if it was in immediate, imminent danger, which is unlikely in my experience (this is an overused term by dog fanatics to show fake altruism). In his defence he never realised when we got together how important animals are to me, in fact I think it has increased once I knew we would never have a family. Tell that guy to pack his clothes and his dog and cat and GET THE HECK OUT!!!!!! 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